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Post by Adrenaline on Oct 14, 2015 16:08:19 GMT -6
He fought the good fight and his spirit never gave up. Only his body did. My loving and selfless father, Richard, passed away early Tuesday morning of stage 4 non-smoker's lung cancer at the age of 65. He had it for 1 year and complications due to it in his final month (diabetic shock, pneumonia, sepsis, and renal failure especially) put him in a coma for his last 24 hours. I sat at his hospital bed side, with the doctors having done everything they could, and watched my dad take his final breaths as his heart gave out on the monitor screen. It was beyond emotional and extremely depressing for me. But now, he is flying high, free of pain, and with his loved ones in the "Other World."
He fought countless medical problems in his 65 years including being diagnosed with diabetes at the age of 11 (caught from cat scratch fever which he got at the age of 10), surgeries to his arm, eyes, heart (due to a heart attack on my birthday Christmas Eve 2004), and feet (he lost multiple toes and eventually half of his right foot in 2011--due to diabetes). The man never got a break and all he did was sacrifice his time and dedication to working 50-60 hrs a week as a Pharmacist to provide good money for a large family. He was truly selfless in every sense of the word.
His unfortunate passing has left my family scrambling, but not panicking for a little extra help in resting him. Please, there are no obligations on you, but I still want to present the opportunity for anyone who wants to help, to do so, by clicking here. www.gofundme.com/656a7r88 Don't be embarrassed to pay even the smallest of donations. Even a couple dollars is appreciated. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. If you cannot, thanks for at least taking the time to read this post. Seriously. Thank you.
This photo was taken on Christmas day last year of my father, myself, and my oldest son Taiken. I made that shirt for him and even though he was never healed in body, his spirit won. A few weeks ago, he told me as I left the hospital one night, "you're a good son, a good father, and a good man." All I can say now is "dad, you were the best son, the best father, and the best man." I love you, dad. Always and forever. I WILL see you again. 
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2015 17:46:23 GMT -6
My sincere condolences...  ... Be strong, at this difficult time! Although I do not know you personally, I paid 20$ to GoFundMe! For the future all the best to you and your family.  |
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Post by Gohan on Oct 14, 2015 18:03:38 GMT -6
I'm so sorry to hear about your fathers passing. I know this is a very sad and difficult time for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2015 18:43:55 GMT -6
I'm sorry, Adrenaline. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers (I'm going to say a prayer right now after I finish this post). Thank you for sharing how amazing your dad was. From what you said, your father did beat cancer! There's a lot of people that would not handle that situation as courageous and loving as your father did.
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My Dad
Oct 14, 2015 21:25:42 GMT -6
Post by timone317 on Oct 14, 2015 21:25:42 GMT -6
I'm really sorry to hear this. I was a bit taken aback reading that as my dad has a very similar story and I have a good idea of what you must be going through. I have no idea what to say other than you have my condolences.
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Post by drowningrabbit on Oct 14, 2015 22:37:20 GMT -6
I am sorry for your loss, it is always hard to lose a loved one, especially a father. My heart goes out to you, and thank you for sharing your story.
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My Dad
Oct 14, 2015 22:55:19 GMT -6
Post by smalldogjr on Oct 14, 2015 22:55:19 GMT -6
I am very sorry to hear this . Many blessings to you and your family for this great loss. I can't imagine how hard this is for your. I pray that you and your family may have strength through this tough time. Coping with loss, it is the strength of the family and faith is what helps many. Be strong for your father, keep his memory and legacy alive, through you. Don't worry buddy, i am sure your father is in a better place, free of suffering, free of pain. And what ever accomplishments you make in life i am sure he will be watching over you and being proud of you. May you and your family find strength together, and may you comfort each other and grow closer. They say time heals all wounds but what i truly believe heals wounds is love... Love through family and friends and if you believe, through God as well. Hang in there buddy. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted" Matthew 5:4 |
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My Dad
Oct 15, 2015 0:29:30 GMT -6
Post by gotenks on Oct 15, 2015 0:29:30 GMT -6
I'm really sorry to hear that, few of my family members died due to cancer, and I can't even imgaine how hard it feels to lose a father to it. You have my condolences.
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My Dad
Oct 15, 2015 14:31:27 GMT -6
Post by ToadKart on Oct 15, 2015 14:31:27 GMT -6
I'm very sorry for your loss. He sounded like a great man, and very strong for going through all of that.
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My Dad
Oct 17, 2015 17:49:40 GMT -6
Post by Adrenaline on Oct 17, 2015 17:49:40 GMT -6
You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for the support. It has been a whirlwind of emotions and the viewing and funeral haven't even come yet. They are scheduled for Monday and Tuesday and it will be a very difficult 24 hours (Monday evening when my brothers and I dress my father for his burial til the next night when services are complete)
I felt a little guilty posting the gofundme, but I knew there were friends here that could feel my pain and would want to help. You see, my mom is left with pretty much nothing. This was out of my father's control. He lost his job last year before the cancer struck and with it, lost whatever pension he had. Their retirement funds are basically depleted because my father's medical bills and so forth, even with insurance. Don't get me started on insurance (I think it's a big waste). Anyway, all my mom has to fall back on is a 2nd house my parents had, which she can sell, and my dad's car, so helping fund the funeral is a great and generous way to help. Thank you all so much.
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My Dad
Oct 21, 2015 4:20:17 GMT -6
Post by takezo on Oct 21, 2015 4:20:17 GMT -6
I'm very sorry to read about this. My sincere condolences Adrenaline. Stick together and stay strong in these difficult times. Wish you and your family the best.
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My Dad
Nov 4, 2015 1:56:09 GMT -6
Post by supersaiyansanchez on Nov 4, 2015 1:56:09 GMT -6
Hey brotha srry about the late post and sorry to hear about your dad passing. I know it's not easy kuz so many memories cross ur mind but u have that comfort knowing hes at peace and one day youll see him again in the next life. I never understood how it felt when friends or customers would tell me they lost there parents until my dad passed on Oct. 7th. It feels crazy knowing hes gone like I won't ever talk to him or see him again unless I'm dreaming but It makes me glad he accepted the Lord last year but sad that he's not here but u have to learn to move on with life and appreciate all the things he did for u and ur family and all the things he taught u even though u didn't realize it at that moment.
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Post by Adrenaline on Nov 4, 2015 16:14:06 GMT -6
Thank you for that. Means a lot. And so sorry to hear you went through the same thing. It's surreal to think we won't have that direct communication until the next life, but I still talk to him everyday. I know he hears me and looks out for me and his grandchildren. Even when you think you're humble, it's amazing how humbled such a loss can still make you.
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... Be strong, at this difficult time! Although I do not know you personally, I paid 20$ to GoFundMe! For the future all the best to you and your family. 
